Beloved Woman, Daughter, Sister, Wife, Mother, Mother-in-Law, Aunt, Tante, Oma, Ur-Oma, Textile Artist and Teacher, Friend. Peacefully at Woodland Villa Nursing Home, Long Sault Ontario, with children Ingrid and Greg as conduits for her family through video calls, surrounded by the love of all who knew her.
Most loving and beloved wife of Tony (predeceased 2007) and mother of Wilfred, Barbara (John Craig), Christine (Michael Coughlan), Peter (Anne), twins Monica (Mark Schultz) and Louise Scheid (Nando Favaro), Annette (Bill Huitema), Gregory (Kathy Lajeunesse), Norbert (Heike Sauerwein-Brockmann), twins Karen (Neil Szeryk) and Erica (Chris Hall) and Ingrid (Chris Sylvestre).
Cherished Oma of Ben Brockmann (Laura Veska) and Deanna Babington Brockmann (Ryan Babington); Aidan and Kathleen O’Keeffe; Erich (predeceased 2002), Jacob, Brennan, Shantel Coughlan; Margaret (Seth Miller); Tina (Tony Filardo), David (Erin), Paul (Elana) Brockmann; Annika, twins Katrina and Karl Schultz; Elyse Scheid; twins Erin and Sarah Huitema; Brian and Charlie Brockmann; Andrea and Kevin Brockmann; Maddie and Ellie Szeryk; Matthew Hall (Jenna Frey), Mckenzie Hall (Eric Donaldson) and Rachel Hall; Samuel, Alexandre and Anthony Sylvestre.
Mutually adored Ur-Oma of: Alice and Valerie Brockmann; Celeste Brockmann Babington; Phoebe Miller; Everett and Noelle Filardo; Delia Brockmann.
Loved and loving Tante of her German nieces and nephews: Elisabeth Eidens (Susanne Supplieth); Johannes Eidens (Gunhild Trieschmann); Hildegard (Ulrich Hecker); Matthias Eidens (Amari); Brigitta Eidens; Ansgar Eidens (Sonja Niemann).
Regarded with deep affection by her living Canadian in-laws: Josephine Holtermann, Mary Brockman, Mary Welder, Ralph (Anne) Brockman and many nieces and nephews across the continent.
Fondly remembered by Michael O’Keeffe, Joanne Brockmann, the Scheid family and many friends.
The details of Erika’s life only hint at the reality of this energetic woman and her prodigious talent, who courageously forged a life of love that benefitted us all. A 52 year happy marriage to Tony; 12 children; 30 grandchildren; 7 great-grandchildren; expression as a textile artist and teacher; a faith-filled life as a community minded Catholic.
German born in 1929 to Erich and Hildegard Schlotmann and raised with her sister Hannelore (d. 1974) against the harsh backdrop of WWII, Erika made an independent choice in opposition to her parents’ wishes, to become engaged to a Canadian soldier on NATO posting whom she had only known for six weeks. While this love story was the central feature of the story Erika told about herself, it was the use of her energy and talents to do loving things for her family and community that was key to the abundant life she made for all. Her guiding force was the artistic urge to create – whether it was babies, textiles or baking – and to generously share her creations with others.
Erika’s ability to communicate with small humans cannot be underestimated. Mothering infants in a 20 year span; being an engaged, baking-ready, card-playing, book-reading Oma; recently beaming at the youngest great grandbaby Delia – still meant there was room for one more at the table. Nephews and nieces from Germany, neighbourhood children, cousins from Belle River, Ontario were welcome.
As those small children grew, Erika engaged in relationships with an understanding of who they were and what they needed, sometimes before they recognized it in themselves. She was a woman ahead of her time, a feminist with an inclusive mindset who encouraged her children to work to their full potential. The only preconceived notion she held onto for what her children needed to be was educated. Her granddaughters in particular are influenced by her emphasis on education and her bad-ass attitude.
Trained in Germany as a textile engineer, Erika designed and sewed, knit and crocheted (often without actually looking at the complicated patterns being formed underneath her fast-moving hands) throughout her life. Her artistry was evident in the intersection between the idea of the beautiful yet practical thing; the needs of the person it was meant for and the selection of the right textile to bring it to life. In the early 1970’s Erika studied weaving at Fanshawe College, London. Recognizing her quick talent at both learning and teaching, she was invited to take over the beginner class the following term. This launched her 20 year part-time teaching career. What to do with Ingrid, her twelfth child? Just bring the baby to class!
Ingrid returned the favour in 2003 when her family (Chris Sylvestre and baby Samuel; later joined by Alexandre and Anthony) moved to Hallville ON, bringing Tony and Erika along with them. Brockmanns are especially grateful to the Sylvestres that Erika’s final years were enjoyed in a family setting where jam making, raisin bread, crumb cake, shortbread cookies, rommé card games and especially love were shared in a fully integrated household. To her many talents Oma added mini-stick hockey playing – Oma versus Anthony. In her final months Erika referred to her youngest child as “my mother.” When asked about this, Erika responded, ”She looks after me just like a mother.” The highest possible praise.
Erika created rituals that had Catholic faith at its core. Within the St. Daniel the Martyr (South Mountain, ON) community, Erika initiated a Prayershawl Ministry where knitters gather and make shawls for the sick while praying. At last count, 125 shawls had been sent out. Erika, after having made countless herself, received one which she gratefully wore in her final months. Another way she lived her Catholic faith: she was an informed life-long reader with a caring regard for the dispossessed; she was aware of current events and always voted.
Here is the concluding paragraph where the loose threads are woven in: the way Erika loved to polka with Tony and dance with the young crowd at family weddings; her love of performance and music which found its way to all her children and grandchildren; her willingness to try new things; her encouragement for all we did; her fierce determination when faced with hardship; her direct manner that was always true to her; her infectious laugh; her tenderness; her warm hugs; her glad and radiant smile.
We carry you in our music, our dancing, our baking, our knitting, sewing, weaving and creating. In the generations here and yet to come. We experience both grief and grace; and are grateful for your life. We love you Mom, Oma, Erika.
Many thanks to the kindness and care of the Woodland Villa Retirement Home, Long Sault ON especially Holly, Kelly, Bailey, Alex and Sherry where Erika lived the final 1.5 years of her life.
Video Tribute to Erika, beloved Daughter, Sister, Wife, Mother, Mother-in-law, Aunt, Tante, Oma, Ur-Oma, Textile Artist and Teacher and Friend: Our Mom
If you wish to join Erika’s family for a Virtual Sharing of Stories of the Life and Times of Erika Brockmann please join us at 7 PM EDT on Sunday, May 16 2021. Details can be found at the following link: www.brockmann.com/Erika
A private wake and funeral will be held, in accordance with the COVID-era requirements.
You are welcome to join us at the Live-streamed Funeral Mass to be held on Monday May 17, 2021 at 11 AM EDT at the following link: https://youtu.be/wcv-frc_k8Q
To help with the participation of Erika’s Funeral Mass from afar, please download the Worship Aid at the following link: www.brockmann.com/Erika
In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Erika’s two favourite charities. Sisters of the Precious Blood can be found at http://www.pbsisters.on.ca/monasteries/london/
The Ottawa Mission can be found at https://ottawamission.com/
Arrangements entrusted to the Byers Funeral home, South Mountain (613 989-3836)
Online condolences may be made at: www.byersfuneralhomeinc.com Or www.donohuefuneralhome.ca
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Cynthia Holder saysMay 14, 2021 at 7:59 am
Erica — my condolences to you and your family. I have never read such a loving obituary/tribute; it brought tears to my eyes. What an amazing woman you were blessed with.
Isabelle Hebert saysMay 14, 2021 at 9:06 am
Erica, my condolences to you and entire family. What a great woman. Your memories will comfort you.
Sonia and Don Beam saysMay 14, 2021 at 9:17 am
Our hearts go out to you Erica and Chris and to your family. You were so fortunate to have her for as long as you did. A life well lived full of love.
Please accept our sincere condolences.
Susanne Weeke saysMay 14, 2021 at 9:36 am
My condolences to all of you. Erika was a wonderful warm-hearted Person. I’m happy that I had the chance to met her. On monday, I will be with you on YouTube.
Judy Taylor saysMay 14, 2021 at 9:07 am
What an incredible tribute to your mom Erica, can certainly see where you get your energy from. 12 children wow. My condolences to your entire family.
Doug and Mary Hall saysMay 14, 2021 at 9:59 am
Our condolences to you Erica, Chris and all your family .
Doug and Mary
Wendy Erb saysMay 14, 2021 at 10:02 am
Erica, my condolences to you and your family. Your mother was an amazing person and what a beautiful tribute to her life.
Noel & Deborah Brockman saysMay 15, 2021 at 2:22 pm
To all my first cousins our sincere condolences for Aunt Erika. Your tribute says it all, such an amazing and talented women. God bless all of you
Rosemary Bilyea saysMay 15, 2021 at 11:16 pm
Prayers and condolence for the family. You have to feel blessed for having such a great careing mother and I can see she passed those traits down to her children.
Roger and Yvonne Trudell saysMay 16, 2021 at 9:28 am
So sorry for your loss Ingrid, Christopher and all family and close friends. She was an exceptional woman and anyone who met her would know that. She is now dancing again in heaven and still watching out for all those she loved. Peace be with all of you. Tante Yvonne and oncle Roger
Sylvia R Smith saysMay 16, 2021 at 10:28 am
I and my family are so sorry for your loss Barbara. Your mother, while we never met her, sounds like a phenomenal force for good. So talented and so caring! You are a great testament to her life, a life lived well. We are with you in this time of sadness.
Fern and Michael Downing saysMay 16, 2021 at 12:20 pm
Please accept our deepest condolences as you grieve the loss of your mother and my aunt. She was an incredible woman who lived her life engaged in caring and helping others in so many ways.: an inspiration to us all.She will be deeply missed by so many whose lives she touched. Sharing in your grief, we send our prayers and love to all of you at this most difficult time.
Agnes and Ralph Brockman saysMay 16, 2021 at 7:56 pm
A TrueIy remarkable woman. She lived a life worth celebrating, and we are proud to have called her Sister.
Agnes and Ralph Brockman
Ken Vigeant saysMay 16, 2021 at 9:18 pm
I wanted to express my sincerest condolences to all those who loved Erika. I certainly remember Erika from my youth, when I would occasionally be at the Brockmann home in London. I know that all of the children and descendants of Erika are well aware of how much she loved them, and they loved her. This is a very sad time, but I hope that you will take strength in your memories of her.
Jim and Rosemary Bradt saysMay 17, 2021 at 10:47 am
Erika was a dear family friend. My parents, Joe and Maria Reith, always enjoyed visits with Erika and her family. My mother was able to share common interests – like knitting and sewing, as well as her German culture. I was always uplifted by Erika’s kind and caring ways. She had a gift of making everyone feel special.
Sending our deepest condolences to all of her family.
Elaine Vecchioni saysMay 17, 2021 at 12:44 pm
Wilf, Barbara, Christine,Gregory, Norbert, Peter, Monica, Louise, Annette, Karen, Erica, and Ingrid, my brothers & sisters…My heart grieves along with you during this most difficult time. Barbara your testimony was so endearing and true which brought both smiles and tears. Wrapping my arms around you all with love and prayers of comfort and peace. You all brought so much joy & pride to her, I know that to be true from her own words. Much LOVE, Elaine xoxo
Keith & Brenda (Brockman) Bessette saysMay 17, 2021 at 5:03 pm
Aunt Erika will be lovingly remembered for her strong character, her creative triumphs and her deep love for family. Extending our heartfelt condolences to Uncle Tony and Aunt Erika’s family.
Caroline Rooney saysMay 24, 2021 at 8:40 pm
It was with great sadness I read of Erika’s passing. A beautiful lady! With great strength to do what she needed to do! Her beautiful smile would light up a room! Thinking of you all in the loss of your dear Mom!
Phil Cavanagh saysJune 3, 2021 at 2:19 pm
Barb, I am sorry this is so belated, but I just read about the passing of your mother.It sure brought back a lot of old memories. I just want to express my sincere condolences to you and all your families [brothers and sisters]. What an amazing woman who had an incredible life and legacy. Cherish the happy times! Phil.
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