2990 Church St., South Mountain, ON

Charlotte Mae Coughler Hayman May 27, 1986 - January 30, 2020

It is with the greatest sadness that we share Charlotte’s passing. Deeply loved wife of Coryn Hayman. Beloved daughter of Connie Coughler and the late Tommy Coughler. Cherished sister of Jack (Tasha) and Brandy (Dan) and sister-in-law of Patrick (Sahereh).  Proud aunt of Kian, Shyan, Parker, Olivia and Emily. Much loved daughter-in-law of Susan Calder. Charlotte will be especially missed by her extended family, friends and colleagues. Her beautiful, gentle, compassionate, loving heart touched lives and helped others in significant ways when needed most.  She was generous and intentional in sharing herself in a sacrificial and meaningful way. A precious gift not only to all she cared for in her career but to everyone who knew and so easily loved her. Charlotte loved to travel and enjoy fine food.  She appreciated the opera and the occasional silly cat video.  She enjoyed flower arranging, painting and pottery. Charlotte was passionate about nursing, working hard to obtain her PSW, RPN and RN certifications. She was especially passionate about working in the field of mental health. In 2019, she married the love of her life, Coryn Hayman. She had an amazing strength, which allowed her to overcome so many challenges along the way to achieving her goals. She has inspired many to believe in themselves, the way she believed in them.  Please help us carry on her legacy through loving acts of kindness. Goodbye for now our sweet girl and know that you live on with us. For those who wish, a donation to CAMH – Centre for Addiction and Mental Health Foundation would be appreciated by the family. A visitation will be held at the Byers Funeral Home 2990 Church Street, South Mountain on Thursday February 13, 2020 from 7 to 9 p.m. and from 10 a.m. until time of Memorial Service Friday February 14, 2020 in the Chapel at 11 a.m. Online condolences may be made at


For those who wish, a donation to CAMH - Centre for Addiction and Mental Health Foundation would be appreciated by the family. A visitation will be held at the Byers Funeral Home 2990 Church Street, South Mountain on Thursday February 13, 2020 from 7 to 9 p.m. and from 10 a.m. until time of Memorial Service Friday February 14, 2020 in the Chapel at 11 a.m. Online condolences may be made at


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    Herman Billings says

    So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.

    Herman & Tina Billings

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    Lloyd & Tina Fawcett says

    So sorry for your loss Connie. Our thoughts are with you.

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    Michele Locke says

    My heart aches to read this….
    Life, is such a precious gift.
    I’m grateful for our conversations only days before your sudden passing … still, life just doesn’t feel fair right now.

    To your family … your husband… your friends, I send care and healing energy for I know their loss is great and, is something time won’t ever fully heal.

    My deepest condolences to every person who has been touch by your love and kindness as you will be greatly missed.

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      Bill Pollock says

      So sorry to hear of your loss Connie. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
      Bill & Dianne Pollock

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    Joanne Moss says

    Dearest Connie, no words can express my sincerest condolences to you and your family. May the Lord bless you and keep you during this difficult time.

    With much love and compassion, Joanne Moss

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    Mairead Hannigan says

    I am so sorry to hear if your loss. You always spoke fondly of your sister. My heart weeps for you and your family at this time.
    Love you…stay strong!

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    Larry Stevens says

    Dear Connie,
    So sad, My deepest condolences to you

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    Cheryl Corbett-Tremblay says

    I’m so sorry for your loss. I will always remember Charlotte’s beautiful smile and warm heart.

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    Christine Davies says

    Dear Brandy and the entire family, my heartfelt condolences to all of you. Thinking of you all during this time.

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      Mindy Chuback says

      To your family Charlotte

      I am so deeply and profoundly saddened to hear today of Charlotte’s passing.

      Charlotte and I met only a few years ago, but I feel like we shared a lifetime’s worth in our journey. Like Charlotte, I too am a nurse and have worked in many of the same areas – in particular we shared a passion for working with those who struggled with addiction.

      I will miss her and our 4 hour conversations in the wee hours of the morning. But she will always remain in my heart and continuously remind me to take chances, be vulnerable and tell the people I love that I do – today.

      RIP my beautiful friend. I love you

      XO. Mindy

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    Karen Ray-Stewart says

    So very sorry to read about your daughter’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

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    Hugh Metcalfe says

    Very sorry for your loss, Connie and family.

    Joanne, Hugh, Jill & Lawrence

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    Sara Miall says

    Heartfelt love and condolences. Charlotte (Char-latte as I called her) is vibrantly imprinted in my heart and memories. Until we meet again.

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    Lucy says

    So sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences to Coyrn and family. RIP

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    Jacinthe Pellerin says

    My most sincere condolence to you. You had the most beautiful daughter ever. She was my mother’s caregiver and best friend. My mother loved her like a daughter. There are angels among us and I truly believe she was one. Charlotte was so happy to have just recently found me on Facebook and expressed her caring loving self.. I will quote what she said to me, “Miss your mum on a regular basis. She changed my life and facilitated my RN career. Such a special lady. I’m so grateful for the pics I have of her.” she also expressed of condolence for the loss of my son. It was so nice of her to reach out, this is the person she was. I told her Mom would be proud of you, she loved you like her own daughter…Mom will greet you with open arms and Tyler as well. You really were like a sister and thank you for everything you did for mom and me through all our hardship. God bless and rest in peace Charlotte. Connie you had the most exceptional daughter…she will be remembered for ever. My love and strength to you. XOXO.

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    Janet Levere says

    So sorry for your loss.

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    Karyn ZIster says


    I have no words that will ease your sadness.
    I am very sorry for your loss.

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    Jane Delamere says

    Dear Coryn, I am so very sorry for your loss. No words could be adequate to console you at this time. Please know that friends are sending you compassion and keeping you close in their thoughts, hearts and prayers.

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    Anna and Bill Potvin says

    We are very sorry for you loss. Charlotte was very special to many people. We are thinking of your family with this terrible loss.

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    Royal Victoria Hospital ER Nursing and Clerical Staff says

    While most of us did not know Charolette personally, we knew of her beautiful spirit through her adoring husband Coryn who we work with at Royal Victoria Regional Health Centre’s Emergency Room. Stories of travel, fine food, wedding preparations , career opportunities ……..we heard how much she loved their beloved cat.

    “There are no goodbyes for us . Wherever you are , you will always be in my heart”
    Mahatma Gandhi

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    nadene harper says

    Hugs to you and your family Connie.One day at a time you will get through this.Prayers being said.

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      Doug Campbell says

      Connie, sincere condolences to you and your family on the loss of your daughter.

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    Mary Orr says

    Dearest Brandy and family: My heart aches for you as I read this story of your beautiful loved one, Charlotte. May your memories comfort you at this time and always. Keep her close in your heart forever. My sincere condolences.

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    Amanda Daluiso says

    Dear Brandy and family,
    I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Charlotte was such a beautiful soul who touched the lives of many. My heart truly breaks for you. May God be with you and guide you during this difficult time. We are thinking of you and are here for you. Our sincere condolences.
    With love,
    Amanda Daluiso and family xoxoxo

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      Anne lyon says

      Charlotte looked after my mother her last days such a beautiful, young woman.

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    Mary Ann says

    My deepest sympathies to Charlotte’s family and friends. I knew her when she worked at Waypoint and I admired her genuineness, compassion and the sunshine she exuded. I will forever be sad as I often enjoyed her random messenger messages catching up. Be at peace my girl you were so loved xoxo.

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    Suzanne Lundrigan says

    I was so shocked to hear of Charlotte’s passing. I worked for them for a time at their home and they were both so kind to me. I had great conversations with Charlotte and shared her love of her three kittycats. She was such a wonderful person and I am grateful that I had the opportunity to know her.

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    Sylvie Denk says

    My Dear Connie, my deepest sympathy and condolence for the loss of your daughter, and to her family. May God’s love and Grace be with all of you during these difficult times

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    Stuart Chambers says

    Saddened to hear about Charlotte’s passing. My sympathies go out to Connie and the entire Coughler family.

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    Mehgan Meathrell says

    Charlotte was a beautiful person inside and out. She was loved by so many and her presence on this earth will truly be missed. My deepest condolences to her family.

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    Jonathan Krebs says

    My deepest sympathies for the loss of Charlotte. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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    Cara Grant says

    Dear Brandy, I am so sorry for your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family

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    Lori Joiner says

    Dear Brandy, my heart is hurting so much for you and your family . Cherish the fabulous memories you two made. My sincere condolences.

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    Shirley Desjardins says

    Dear Connie and family. I am so sorry for what your family is going through. You have our deepest condolences. My heart aches for all of you.

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    Kim Merkley (Hunter) says

    Dear Connie , Brandy , Jack and family I am so sorry for this great loss in your lives , I will be praying for you and your family to have strength to get through this and for God to cover you. My deepest sympathy.

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    Nanda Wubs says

    Dear Connie – LOVE is ours for such a fleeting time, and HIS for eternity. We will meet again, and thankfully, JOY will live with us there. Praying for you dear sister in Christ.

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    Lori Vanderwerf (Schuurmans) says

    I have fond memories of Charlotte as a child. She was always making others laugh and standing up for those who couldn’t. I am so very sorry to hear of her passing. My heart aches for you. Another beautiful soul taken too soon. Peace to you, during this difficult and unsettling time.

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    Geraldine says

    Hello Charlotte: I work at Queen Street Site, offering my condolences to Your Family!
    May Your Soul Rest in Peace and May Perpetual Light Shine upon you.

    Geraldine D’Souza, Child, Youth and Family Services

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    Kathy Albert says

    I am so sorry for your loss Brandy, I know how much you loved your sister. My heart aches for you and your family.

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    Gillian Swan says

    So sorry for your loss Brandy and family.

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    Kathryn Pynenburg says

    So sorry for your loss.

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    Loretta Shields says

    Dear Brandy, My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong my friend. May the wonderful beautiful memories of your dear sister Charlotte provide you comfort during this difficult time .

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    Etta Dziver says

    Connie and the family, was so sorry to hear the sad news of your daughter I kbow words can not express what you all are going through just know you are in my prayers💔❤

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    Rebecca Kricfalusi says

    To Charlie’s family – my deepest condolences. My heart is broken at her loss, she truly was a giving soul.

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    Leah and Bill Swales says

    We are thinking of you, Coryn and sending you strength, comfort and courage at this very difficult time.

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    Joanna Linardis says

    So saddened to hear the news. Sending you warm thoughts and support.

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